oh ...

as someone who has watched your love from the shadows, and does not post on this cork by this name but thinks you may have more likelihood of recognizing me as such ...

I did not know. And I am so sorry. You two have been a beautiful example of love. I send all my wishes for calm painless travels to her, and for all the insight into what next steps her soul will see. And I send you my supportive wishes and what love a stranger can offer.