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Get Deliberate: Find a mantra, word, or saying that grounds you!
For example: “Don’t shrink. Don’t puff up. Stand on your sacred ground.” Saying this little mantra helps me remember not to get small so other people are comfortable and not to throw up my armor as a way to protect myself.

Get Inspired: I’m inspired by everyone who shares their work and opinions with the world. Courage is contagious.

Get Going: I try to make authenticity my number one goal when I go into a situation where I’m feeling vulnerable. If authenticity is my goal and I keep it real, I never regret it. I might get my feelings hurt, but I rarely feel shame. When acceptance or approval becomes my goal, and it doesn’t work out, that can trigger shame for me: “I’m not good enough.” If the goal is authenticity and they don’t like me, I might feel disappointment, frustration, or even grief, but I’m okay. If the goal is being liked and they don’t like me, I’m in trouble. I get going by making authenticity the priority.

MY REFLECTION: I think that third item above, Get Going is the one that hits me the hardest. It's an incredibly good point. If my goal is to be authentic and keep it real and I get rejected, yes it will really hurt. But it hurts more to puff up and offend while trying to defend against shame, or to shrink down and not be seen at all. Those are worse feelings. It's better to have the goal of authenticity and just being fully present in an exchange with permission from yourself to Do You. When the goal is to be liked or to please people or impress people.... then that failure hurts far more and has shame attached because it's a sell-out on the self. It's compromising the self for the sake of a return on investment in the form of approval that may never come. At least taking risks and being real to yourself doesn't come with a layer of selling oneself out. HOWEVER, this really does mean being dialed in enough with the self to even KNOW what is authentic in the moment. It's not easy to drown out all the noise of being activated while hustling for worthiness, to be able to even hear that little voice inside that is Me. Sometimes, I can't hear it at all.

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Morning hooters folks merry wensday🙂 poor Boe tangled up in many projects helps the best i can
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DALLIANCE**\ ~

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MY REFLECTION: Right now, I'm thinking that the big barrier I feel toward being fully real and authentic is not only the fear of being criticized, disliked, judged, or rejected in a way that would hurt so much more for being completely vulnerable, but also the idea that.... I might not be able to handle such a thing happening.

If I thought I could be Raw and show up with my full self, vulnerable and authentically engaged in whatever I might be doing... and if someone rejected that or me, I'd be just fine... I think it would be easier not to people please or, as Brene Brown says -- *hustle for my worth*.

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DALLIANCE**\ ~

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DALLIANCE**\ ~

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DALLIANCE**\ ~ has started a new game with the following players:
DALLIANCE**\ ~

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